I wonder why so many of us choose to shoulder blame when kismet drew the card. And even when pointed out, we refuse to accept our life’s hard just ‘cause it’s hard. I used to say I must’ve been the one when something inevitably went wrong. Everyone else looked like they had won -- or at least at the sky -- whistling a song. But after too many times taking blame, from parents, teachers, friends for all this stuff, I realized they couldn’t deal with the shame to admit their fault. So I said “Enough!” I’m not responsible for your screwups, and perhaps they’re not all your fault, as well. Sometimes stuff happens, like dice rolled from cups and taking on unearned blame’s a living hell. Life’s a gamble, randomly dealt, lost and won and sometimes things happen ‘cause they do. If you can’t accept this then Life won’t be fun. And while I hate blame, that one’ll be on you.
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